Undercover Haters

Life brings a wide variety of people in your life. People that are there to bless you, and be an inspiration, and be an encouragement to you.   You have some people who are there only temporally and, those who are a constant in your life. There are some that are there to teach you many things like a mentor, and some that are there for one purpose. What every the reason or the length of time, and under cover hater can always be lurking in one of those people. Those undercover haters never take off their mask until you make a step forward in the right direction. They are ok until you actually accomplish something. They are ok as long as they feel a step ahead of you and sometimes that doesn’t even matter. Undercover haters are everywhere and can be anyone. One thing I know is that in there heart of hearts they are sooo jealous of you and any thing you do that’s good. They will always feel like they are lacking when you do something good. They can be a millionaire, but let them see you accomplish your goal of buying a lemon (car) that may coast 1,000. They will feel as if they are not doing enough. They can have all they dream in life, but will hate on you for accomplishing your goals.  Undercover haters will pop out at the unexpected times, boiling mad, wanting to cut you up because your succeeding at something. 

You have those undercover hater that are ok as long as you their wing man, but as soon as you gain some independence, here comes that green eyed monster (Jealous). These are those people that sow seeds of doubt in you. These are those that will try to discourage you from doing something that’s working. Sometimes they will try to tell you it’s not working, or tell what needs to change to make you second guess yourself.  Undercover haters are the WORST!! They will build a relationship with you so they can feel as if there is someone beneath them or they will try to control what you do, in fear of you becoming better than them.   If you find yourself in a relationship with an undercover hater, Get away!! They will always be that because there is something in them that needs to be dealt with before they can be genuinely happy for you. They hate you for being you, because they feel like they can’t be who they desire to be. They feel stuck, and you’re moving. They feel unimportant, and they want you to feel that way also. Get away from them, it will benefit you. If you are making moves, you can’t afford to have people in your life that wish chains around your ankles.  Keep doing you, you would not have that undercover hater, if you were not doing something right.  Keep doing you, Boo!