You don’t have to take it!!

I don’t understand why people think that they can do and say anything they want to you and think you are just suppose to accept it.  Like, for the last few years I have really been noticing how, crazy and emotionally selfish people really are. People will do or say something crazy to you and swear, you did something to them. Like what’s up with that.  People will do things to you and will want you to forgive them and move on, but do one tiny thing to them, it’s all over. LOL!!! Sometimes you even have to do anything, it could be in their head.  

 People are crazy! Not only that. But, Society will make you feel like you have to prove yourself at every point in your life.  You don’t have to take it!! People think you are suppose to accept how they treat you and how they feel about you, you don’t!! And, if you allow yourself to be sucked in to the way they view you. You will constantly find yourself unhappy and trying to find someone you probable already knew you were. 

Those kinds of thing will make you second guess yourself and become more insecure if you allow it to.  It’s ok to be yourself, its ok to be different. It’s ok not be someone’s door mat.   You don’t have to be anyone’s cheerleader.  Take time to focus on you, and work on you.  You are becoming a better you! You have to take anyone’s crap. Always remember that! Always remember people come and go, and you are not a rest stop. A place where they use the bathroom and drop their trash. Stand up for yourself and keep it moving! A plane can’t take off if it has too much weight.