Disappointment
occurs at many different times in our lives. Sometimes you can see and can
sense it will happen. And sometimes you can feel it coming from a mile away,
and still trying to give it the benefit of the doubt. Other times it catches
you completely by surprise and off guard. However or whenever it comes, it is
always a blow!! A Blow to you heart, ego, confidence, and relationships.
It can sometimes change how you view the world completely. We all will
experience it at some point in our lives. It can have such a hold on you and
follow you throughout life. It can change how you plan your goals. It can
change how you handle relationships. I believe, depending on the
situation, there is something to learn from disappointment. How did it happen?
Where did it come from? Is it some thing
that can be fixed? When we have hope and an expectation for something, your
heart is in it, you have confidence in it. You began to form a level of trust.
So, for it to fail or be sabotaged can be life changing.
The people you love can disappoint you. Sometimes they don’t mean it but it
happens. When the people you love drop you or brush you off, it will
leave an impression that will often times set the tone for future
relationships. You will always, in the back of your mind question if the next
person will do you the same way. So you build a wall that you stand on and wait
for an offense to happen. Be careful in doing that because you can accidentally
take a false alarm and run with it and ruin a great thing. I’m not saying
people are perfect, however you will never have another healthy relationship
until you deal with the fungus of disappointment that has grown around your
heart. Opportunities also can be disappointing, you build up expectation
and excitement for it. If it doesn’t turn the way you planned it or it
turns out horrible, you will not want to plan future events or always fear it
will be just as bad. However your disappointment happens, there is healing that
needs to take place. Confidence to be restored. If we can push pass
disappointment, pick ourselves up and dust ourselves off. It will make us
stronger. We will build up muscles of endurance. We will learn how not to
stay in a rut and keep walking. Keep pursuing our dreams and finding new
people and giving them a chance. Not letting the fear of disappointment hinder
our future any longer!!! Thank you !
Sincerely,
Goodbye Disappointment
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