Trust!!

Trust is one of the key pillars of any relationship. It is not always easily obtained, but it can be easily broken. When someone decides to trust you make sure you honor it and keep it because it is way too easy to lose it. Once you have someone’s true trust, it nothing anyone say that will make that person believe that you would do anything to betray them or break that trust. Once trust has been broken, you will never get it back 100%. There is some that will disagree with me, let me explain it a little further. Say you are in a relationship with someone and that cheated on you. You decide after a little while to forgive them, but in the back of your mind, you are still and will be wondering where they are, what they are doing and who’s around when you are not around. Most people can’t even return to a relationship when they’ve been cheated on, and if they do they never trust that person again completely there will always be in their mind “the possibility”. When someone breaks your trust in the way of telling secrets you told them. You began to think twice before your tell them certain things ever again. Although you trust the not to harm you or steal from you, access your secrets going on into the future might never happen again. All humans make mistakes but losing someone’s trust will hit you where it hurts every time.

When trust is lost in a relationship, it changes the dynamics of that relationship. It changes how you view the person. It’s disappointing and sometimes hearts shattering. However, forgiveness is always in order. Trusting someone is having confidence in the person and how they present themselves to be. It is ok to trust. Even when your trust has been taken for granted, it just means that one person is no longer worthy of it. When someone trusts you, honor it because it speaks volume to your character. It speaks volume of how they feel about you. Someone that trusts you hold you in high esteem. Hold on to that trust.  Remember once trust is broken you will never truly get it back 100%

                                                                                       -AB